Stable job, family conditions rather, these are normal as the girls want to get a sense of security you have such thoughts do not feel ashamed this is not exactly a luxury request I know this will be a controversial topic, only the following represents my personal opinion, I think a certain degree of good match is very important not just refer to the economy in similar family backgrounds of the children grew up, there is usually more common language and say that money alone this regard, one higher than the other too many words, and always will lead to psychological imbalance so one would like to get married in the civilian population, or doctoral students have to find a self-sustaining lofty mountains to the girl, which is not to say can never be successful, but the success of such a thing sometimes the girls are not too little to use in order to prove that they are not to be moved by money, not to be reluctant and not very good boy with a condition